Why did I choose this path after twenty years in the home mortgage business? My journey as an end of life doula began when my mom's husband, Mel, was preparing to pass after a long illness. The hospital had sent him home with hospice care and my mom was overwhelmed with confusion about what was happening. I discovered that the organization, problem-solving, and management skills from my former line of work naturally flowed into where we found ourselves, in unexpected chaos and stress. I acted as an advocate for both Mel and my mom with hospice care, ensuring they understood and accepted the situation and could be present with each other during his few final days. Mel passed away peacefully with us at his side. In that moment, I felt humbled and grateful to be present during his passing, and felt a calling to pursue this service as a career.